1. Kiss them often.
You can't ever kiss your kids too much. Kiss them when they're
young. And kiss them when they're old.
2. Teach them. Remember they look up to you. They pick up on everything. Show them the world. Show them the beauty of life. Let their little brains explore.
3. Make Memories. Think of fun family activities to do. Go to the zoo. Go to the park. It's never too early to start traditions. As a family. Do crafts together. Bake cookies. Make finger paint. Make a sand castle. And repeat it every year. You will enjoy this time. And they will enjoy it even more.
4. Take pictures. Lots of them. Thousands! Who cares if they are sitting in the same pose... those facial expressions are honestly priceless. And? Save them all. Each and every one of them. Blow them up. Fill your house with pictures and be proud! And I guarantee you will appreciate having these in the future.
5. Plan ahead. Think about the future. Plan for the future. Buy clothes ahead of time. Review your finances a year in advance. And remember, your child should always come first.
6. Share. Share your child. Others want to love on him or her, or them. Let them. It's okay. Your child/children won't forget that you are the most important. And listen, you are.
8. Remember, there are two. Include your partner. Get his opinion. Allow him to make decisions as well. Remember, this is a first time for him too.
9. Set rules. And set them early. Try to be consistent. Say No. Figure out when you need to draw the line. And these rules? Set them with family members as well. Don't be afraid.
10. Stand firm on your ground. This goes with number 9, but remember, you are affecting this child's future. You are the parent. Set your ground with those around you.
11. Loosen up. Contrary to number 10, remember that sometimes it's okay to just relax and let them be kids. Let them have some sweets. Let them watch TV just a little longer. They will be OK.
12. Never say never. Just when you think that you have this motherhood thing down, you do something, or say something, or something happens that completely contradicts what you may have said it prior to having a baby. And you know what, that too is OK.
13. Watch them. Every second. Accidents happen within seconds. A blink of an eye. And those tears... oh those tears.
14. Write it down. You will forget. Those moments you can't get back. Those memories. Those milestones. I can't stress enough how important it is to write it down! Get a notebook. Write it in the blog. Somewhere where you can return to it. And? Make something of it. Make a book. Scrapbook. You will appreciate it later.
15. First milestones are important. And don't feel guilty going all out. Don't feel guilty not going all out. As long as you enjoy those moments, relive the year, and spoil that child with love, then that is all that matters. But remember, they are important. And these days you can't get back to. You did it. You made it through all these important steps motherhood. That is important!
16. Step away from the computer. And play with your child. Or just watch them. A child playing is one of the most beautiful things in life. They really are the most innocent individuals just discovering this little world around them. Do it. The social media can wait.
17. Whip out that video camera. Take it off the shelf. Wipe off the dust. And put it to good use. Pictures can only capture so much... a video can complete the memory.
18. You can always do better. Never settle. Yes, you are a great mom... but you can always be better. Strive to your potential. Keep working at it. It doesn't happen overnight, but the love you have for the child makes it all worth it.
19. It only gets better. Just when you think you had a great month. Just when you think you love this age. It gets better. And I am convinced that this will continue for years to come.
2. Teach them. Remember they look up to you. They pick up on everything. Show them the world. Show them the beauty of life. Let their little brains explore.
3. Make Memories. Think of fun family activities to do. Go to the zoo. Go to the park. It's never too early to start traditions. As a family. Do crafts together. Bake cookies. Make finger paint. Make a sand castle. And repeat it every year. You will enjoy this time. And they will enjoy it even more.
4. Take pictures. Lots of them. Thousands! Who cares if they are sitting in the same pose... those facial expressions are honestly priceless. And? Save them all. Each and every one of them. Blow them up. Fill your house with pictures and be proud! And I guarantee you will appreciate having these in the future.
5. Plan ahead. Think about the future. Plan for the future. Buy clothes ahead of time. Review your finances a year in advance. And remember, your child should always come first.
6. Share. Share your child. Others want to love on him or her, or them. Let them. It's okay. Your child/children won't forget that you are the most important. And listen, you are.
7. Read them Books. Every day. They are absorbing and
absorbing. And in the midst of the reading they are cuddling on you. Loving you.
Savor those moments.
8. Remember, there are two. Include your partner. Get his opinion. Allow him to make decisions as well. Remember, this is a first time for him too.
9. Set rules. And set them early. Try to be consistent. Say No. Figure out when you need to draw the line. And these rules? Set them with family members as well. Don't be afraid.
10. Stand firm on your ground. This goes with number 9, but remember, you are affecting this child's future. You are the parent. Set your ground with those around you.
11. Loosen up. Contrary to number 10, remember that sometimes it's okay to just relax and let them be kids. Let them have some sweets. Let them watch TV just a little longer. They will be OK.
12. Never say never. Just when you think that you have this motherhood thing down, you do something, or say something, or something happens that completely contradicts what you may have said it prior to having a baby. And you know what, that too is OK.
13. Watch them. Every second. Accidents happen within seconds. A blink of an eye. And those tears... oh those tears.
14. Write it down. You will forget. Those moments you can't get back. Those memories. Those milestones. I can't stress enough how important it is to write it down! Get a notebook. Write it in the blog. Somewhere where you can return to it. And? Make something of it. Make a book. Scrapbook. You will appreciate it later.
15. First milestones are important. And don't feel guilty going all out. Don't feel guilty not going all out. As long as you enjoy those moments, relive the year, and spoil that child with love, then that is all that matters. But remember, they are important. And these days you can't get back to. You did it. You made it through all these important steps motherhood. That is important!
16. Step away from the computer. And play with your child. Or just watch them. A child playing is one of the most beautiful things in life. They really are the most innocent individuals just discovering this little world around them. Do it. The social media can wait.
17. Whip out that video camera. Take it off the shelf. Wipe off the dust. And put it to good use. Pictures can only capture so much... a video can complete the memory.
18. You can always do better. Never settle. Yes, you are a great mom... but you can always be better. Strive to your potential. Keep working at it. It doesn't happen overnight, but the love you have for the child makes it all worth it.
19. It only gets better. Just when you think you had a great month. Just when you think you love this age. It gets better. And I am convinced that this will continue for years to come.
20. Never regret. Don't "wish" you did this. Or that. Or why did I do this or that. Trust your decisions. Learn from them. And grow. Because at the end of the day....
You are that child's mother and no one can ever take that away from you.
21. Be patient. Yes it
can be hard at times. Life can get busy. There isn't enough time in the day. But
always remember to be patient. With your children. With your partner. And
most importantly, with yourself.
22. If you take anything from all this, take this: You are a great mom. You are an amazing mom. You would do anything for your child. And your child is SO lucky to have you. :)
22. If you take anything from all this, take this: You are a great mom. You are an amazing mom. You would do anything for your child. And your child is SO lucky to have you. :)
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